Sexual Performance Phobia (anxiety).

Sexual performance phobia (anxiety)

Unhappy conjugal life

Introduction:

Many guys are there who had not erectile dysfunction problem earlier or still has not any erectile dysfunction problem. But just when they go meet their conjugal partner, they do not get hard. This is embarrassing, shameful and sorrowful. Can you guess any cause behind it? I think this problem is due to mainly sexual performance phobia or anxiety.

What is sexual performance phobia ?

So before sexual meeting, if any guy thinks or believes that his partner's sexual organ is too big or too small for him or he won't be able to satisfy her. If such thought or belief once grows in his subconcious mind, then he will never get aroused or get hard actually and sustain any penile erection. Such thought or belief is called sexual performance phobia or sexual performance anxiety. So before sexual meeting, performance anxiety produces stress hormone cortisol in his body making his organ down. 

Can a male leave the thought of his sexual performance phobia?

After learning about sexual performance phobia, a male partner might try to leave his thought of performance anxiety and try to gain erection, but still he is not being able to gain penile erection. Because still the performance anxiety is in his subconcious mind. What is in subconcious mind can not be deleted deliberately.

Does sexual performance phobia happen in female ?

Sexual performance anxiety or phobia may occur in female also. If any female thinks that his partner's organ is too big or too small for her, she will not get aroused and produce any fluid in her sexual organ.

Other causes of sexual performance phobia are as follow:

1. Mental distance: 

Mental distance negatively affects our sexual life. When there is no knowing, mingling, loving and respecting for each other, there will be no real attraction for each other actually. So knowing each other is first.

2. Relation problem: 

If there is any quarrel or dissatisfaction between male and female, there will develop no mutual attraction. So fixing relation quickly and maintaining good relation first.

3. Hurt one's feeling:

Mutual attraction situation will worsen if there is any ego to hurt each other's feeling. Let knowledge and philosophy rule your conjugal life.

If an individual hurts his or her partner, this hurt feeling reaches his or her subconcious mind and produces a subconcious belief that his or her partner is not a good person at all.

4. Not being human:

Inhumanity kills our personality leading to mutual distraction. Through exercising all values like truthfulness, honesty, modesty, we can develope our personality. And personality always commands each other love and respect. Maintaining mutual love and respect can not be done by force. It should be grown and developed spontaneously.

5. Ignorance of human sexual organ anatomy:

Ignorance of human sexual organ anatomy may lead us to wrong beliefs of sexual insufficiency growing some performance phobia in us. So knowledge of human sexual organ anatomy is first.

6. Not maintaining neat and cleanliness:

Not maintaining cleanliness and beautification can negatively affect your sexual life. It is a part of personality that affects both male and female.

How to deal with persistent sexual performance anxiety finally?

Anyway, when it comes to sexual performance phobia, so prior to sexual meeting  we should talk about the issue with our female partner. 

Love and co-operate each other

Our female partner should assist, assure and encourage her male partner that his perception of own sexual incapability is quite bogus. 

If the penile erection problem still continues, then, before sexual meeting, he should take sexual stimulation herbal pill for several meeting days. This way, the male partner will gradually develop some confidence in his own sexual capability.

Should a male take sexual stimulation pill for long ?

But in the later meeting days, he should try to try meet without pill. Because repeatedly using pill will make a male partner have confidence in pill, not in his sexual capabilities. Besides, stimulation pill gradually decrease one's sexual capability.

Conclusion: No problem in this world remains ever unfixed. All will be adjusted, repaired and fixed. I hope you all suffering from sexual performance phobia or anxiety will be able to get rid of this and live a happier conjugal life.